Have a look at the list below and answer the questions honestly.
If you have answered yes to any of the above questions, then you are probably involved in and/or displaying bullying behaviour towards someone and making them feel pretty awful.
Bullying is not fun. It’s not harmless teasing either. Bullying hurts and it ruins lives. Nearly half of young suicides are as a result of bullying. Many miss out on their education because they can’t concentrate or they truant to get away from their bullies. Even for those who get through their bullying, the effects on their confidence, self-esteem, trust and relationships with others can last for many years. Is this what you really want to do to another person?
Think about why you do these things. Is it because someone does it to you, or has done in the past and you’re angry about that? Do you make someone else look small so you can feel better about yourself? Or are you scared that if you’re not behaving in this way, you may be the one getting bullied?
There are other reasons why you may be bullying someone and you need to be honest with yourself and consider if any of the below apply to you:
Research from http://www.ditchthelabel.org showed that 36% of those who admitted to bullying others had been in trouble with the Police. Surely this is not the sort of life you want for yourself?
Have a good think to try and work out what makes you behave like this and then ask yourself if this is really the person you want to be. The good news is you don’t have to be. It’s never too late to get help.
See our Making A Change section for help on how to stop bullying others
If you are being bullied or are concerned about someone who is, you can receive help and support from one of our trained Mentors. We currently do not have the ability to provide support face to face or via the telephone and can only provide an e-mentoring service to those affected by bullying.
If you would like a Mentor to email you, please contact: firstname.lastname@example.org
If you would rather speak to someone over the telephone, you can call Childline on: 0800 1111
For any community-related issues, such as anti-social behaviour, we would suggest contacting your landlord, the local police or your local environmental health department (where applicable), as we are unable to deal with these types of complaints.